This is Doreen, from Wife Swap and I am reading this. Do you people realize this it reality TV, for entertainment purposes only with a lot of editing. I do not just lay on my fat a*** once I get home from work, I cook 2 or 3 times a week and my husband cooks a couple of times also, we also go out or have a leftover meal during the week. In my house everyone works. My boys have choirs they do during the week. I do a general cleaning on my house EVERY SUNDAY because my boys do not clean like I want my house to be clean, so I get off my fat lazy a*** and do it like I want it to be clean, my husband does not clean at all. My husband does the laundry and the grocery shopping, he does not let do the laundry because he wants it done a certain way. I do not do the grocery shopping because I am an impulse shopper, he has a budget and I usually do not stick to it. My youngest son runs errands for me yes, it is his job and he gets paid $20.00 + his allowance a week to do this for me. Yes, I work so my sons can have a good life and these are my sons I had with a Black man. I was a single mom doing everything clean, cooking grocery shopping, laundry and spending quality time with both my boys when they were young like LaShelle and Eric's kids, but my children are older, what 17 year old male wants to send time with his parents. My husband tells me I need to let my boys be boys and stop babying them, my 17 year old will not let me baby him anymore, but my 12 year old and I still do things together, but he is wanting to be with his friends more now also. We do spend time with each other as a family, we go out to movies, out to dinner, we play board game. Doing these things together did not come about just because LaShelle bought it up to us. My husband and I are a team, he wears the pants and I wear the panty's. We love and respect each other, and he is not a SLAVE to me, I do things for him and he does things for me, we are equals. Yes, I am loud, and I say what I mean, I get that from my mother who was a strong woman and a QUEEN in her house like I am in my house, but like I tell my husband he is my KING and my sons are my prince's so if that is wrong OH WELL. Both my sons know how to treat people and the are very respectful to everyone and they learned that from their mother. One other thing, sometimes after I have worked an 8 or 9 hour day (which I do not just sit in front of a computer all day, I am on my feet most of the day) I do come home and get into my bed. I broke my ankle in 3 spots and have had 3 surgeries so sometimes my ankle hurts and I need to get off of it. But this does not happen 7 days a week.