They had both couples on Oprah last week and Steve mentioned that they were working at becoming more of a family and stated that it was slow going -- slow going?? Is it so hard to change your schedule and actually spend time with your kids? Know who they are?? I bet Jodi is spending more time with them and I think that overall, in both episodes that I have seen that the men are getting a lot out of the switches (with the exception of Steve) which is interesting since you would assume that it would be just the women that would get something from the change.
I agree with realfun, when he asked if the nannies were taking the kids with them, I almost fell over and felt horrible for those children! What a selfish sob!