We'll just have to agree to disagree. I will never be convinced that it's healthy for a baby and young child to be shoved off onto somebody else while their parent leaves for several weeks, all in order to *maybe* win some show. And then *maybe* make it big. Considering the lousy track record this show has with its winners, that by no means a guarantee.
And even if she does win, you will never convince me that subjecting children to the whole Hollywood lifestyle is healthy, either. As I said above, my cousin's husband was gone 90% of the time with his band, and their marriage was on the rocks. That's why he decided he'd rather be ordinary and content rather than famous and sacrificing his family.