True... I know in my mind what I'm trying to say, but you're right, it probalby wouldn't come across well. I just feel bad for him, you know? And not bad for him in a way where I want Heather to stay with him... just bad for him because he seems like he's not even sure who he is. He needs to be doing some things for himself, not running (or jumping) for some girl.
(btw, I about spit out my drink when I read your "Frank's gonna kill your cat." line... too funny.)