Melas saving grace in asking that question was her attitude. She was respectful and sincere. I think for many of us it seems these are things she should have already have known ,but at least now she hopefully does. I'm sure there are quite a few things that we all should know ,but don't so I'm going to ease up on her a little. Ignorance can be cured .Stupidity can not.
She really seems like a sweet person .