I'm the poster who has been to her restaurant several times and I reiterate that it is excellent. The menu is wonderful and I have never been disappointed.
I have met her, and while I don't know her well, I can see that the edit that they are giving her is not reflective of what I've seen when she's in her restaurant. I am not going to try to justify her behavior. We only see a small part of what actually goes on, and who knows what really happened?
That said, I did have that dessert the last time I was there (post-filming but pre-viewing), and it was fantastic. Either she modified it since the fiasco last week, or something went dreadfully wrong.
All I do know is that she is a great chef and a lovely person.
And for the poster who wonders about the quality of food in NJ? There's no need to be insulting. There are some truly wonderful restaurants all over the state. Don't let some ridiculous reality show edit let you think otherwise.