I thought Tarzan understood more than anyone.He has seen Kat, he has seen how young she is , the things she says. She has had no life experiences. I have kids in my life( not mine) a nephew , he thinks of nothing but to party. That wouldn't change if he were on that island .Thats what I think is sad, I don't know if she will come away with a different outlook on life, or an appreciation for the smaller things , like we have seen before.She really is young, and I'm sure she's tired of hearing it. I thought Tarzan's explanation of how he wasn't offended that she didn't choose him was very gracious and pretty sensible. She is young.