Based on last night, I think she is impressive.
She might not win the game, but she is one of those players that you would want in a real emergency.
She is a leader, compassionate, and just basically squared away.
As to looking older that 43, that's somewhat common when a woman is an athlete and does a lot of outdoor activity. Our perceptions of a woman's youth is based on decades of women who had a higher percentage of bodyfat and thus looked "youthful." Here you have an athlete who is in good shape and doesn't have the curves we tend to assoicate with younger women.
I think she is more than fine.