If Deena gets off on her own strength and admires the strength of women, that does not make her a man-hater. Deena dug Rob. She has a husband. When asked if it would change her vote, if Rob were in the Final 2 instead of Jenna, Deena nodded yes. It's the strawman argument, folks. Don't put words in her mouth. If you're speculating, then say so.
When Deena asked Matt about "may the best man win," she got the answer she wanted, and she still voted for Jenna. Deena used her jury airtime to foster a political agenda, much like Christy did when she asked Matt about competing with a deaf contestant. Nothing wrong with that.