It doesn't matter much to the F2 whether the bachelor was torn and they were dumped and the bachelor knew early and the F2 was dumped. They are hurt either way. Either way they go home, heal, and realize later that they were glad the lead didn't choose them. I don't think Chantal is more or less hurt then Charlie M simply because Brad wasn't torn with who to choose in the end.
Remember Chantal (or at least edited Chantal) is someone who likes to know where she stands and have all the cards out on the table. She would respect Brad more with the honest truth than a social lie designed to make her feel better. I for one am glad that Brad knew his mind and heart, made his choice, and was honest that he didn't struggle with it.
Great post Babyface. Tell Brad that I wish him all the hapiness life can bring him.
"We were just going to do whatever it took to win."--Texas Longhorn Quarterback Colt McCoy
[QUOTE=babyfaceC;4237056]Everyone is edited. Everyone's edit should be scrutinized. Did a participant say "feel sorry for me" or did the show imply that we should feel sorry for them? Big difference. Every woman who went on the show knew what they signed up for. If F2 would have been F1 would she want to think that it actually was a close race? How would I feel if my wife told me that an hour before I proposed she had just decided to end it with the other guy she was dating?QUOTE]
Very true...I still feel that Brad has a responsibilty to be sensitive to the other girls that went on this show...not a hard concept really. Said F1 should be confident by now in his love for her.
I'm sure a breather together without all the secrecy can only do them good. So what if we won't see them together for a few days ATFRC. We'll see them 'live' or whatever right (even though I believe they taped it already last week, I'm a little confused by this, obviously).