Something that has been niggling at the back of my brain since last night were two comments by Brad about Chantal and Emily. He said (paraphrasing) that with Chantal he can totally be himself and with Emily, she makes him want to be a better man. Now, that strikes me as someone saying he thinks Chantal loves him for who he is and Emily loves him for who he thinks he should be. I don't care who he picks, he will live with them not me, but I for one would rather be with the one who loves me for who I am, not who I think I should be in order to be good enough for them. Just an odd way to describe it in my opinion.