I agree, having someone who will love you while you're bouncing off the walls is the best feeling in the world. Having someone who might shut down and turn cold if he feels you are going OTT isn't worth your time and effort. She will find him, indeed.
I'm just so happy I watched this season to get to see Chantal. Out of all the Bachelorettes, she ranks right at the top with Meredith and Jillian for me.