I have no idea who the f1 actually is but I have to consider this which I believe is huge regardless of edit.
I don't think that for even one nanosecond that Emily would accept a proposal at this stage of the game given her daughter. She has been shown to be very cautious (who knows maybe, they were having wild and crazy pre-fantasy date, dates that we are not privy to), still I would doubt very seriously even if she were only 1/2 the mom she is painted to be, that an engagement would be down the road in a few weeks. Every friend of mine in her shoes has always moved very slowly to avoid attachment concerns for their kids. If a guy/gal were brought into the picture is has always been in a group where all of us help buffer the newcomer into the party, bar-b-que what ever so the kids get to know the person first. Therefore, I believe this is the single most important reason that Emily is not the f1. I could be wrong but I doubt it.
I know I'm in my own little world, but it's OK. They know me here.
Big: You know, Manhattan has a lot of beautiful women.
Carrie: What an amazing observation!
Big: But the thing is, after awhile, you just wanna be with the one who makes you laugh.
~ Sex and the City
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This isn’t the Sound of freaking Music we’re watching.......sdl