ALL of the past F1s have had a problem watching their man/woman continue on with the show. If any of them ever said they were not bothered they were either lying or not into the lead to begin with. Even the most gentle natured person is going to have problems watching the kissing, the talks, the touching, etc. Brad spent a heck of a lot more time with the women than what we were shown. Brad has said that the women are not just as the edits show, they are more dimentional, not just one sided. Brad also appears to be more than willing to talk with and work out any issues his F1 is having. That is part of a relationship and something that is not just going to go away in a flash. There will always be issues of some sort that the couple will have to work through for their entire relationship. Emily is human (contrary to what some may want to believe ~ ie, plastic) and if she is having problems that is a part of being human too.