
Originally Posted by
Bananaloaf
Hometown: Chantal
Section 1 (These are the things Brad says on his date with Chantal that we don’t physically see him saying. We don’t know when he said them and we do not know who he is talking about for sure)
1. “Not worrying about anyone else”
2. “Happy, confident secure”
3. “friend”
4. “can happen”
5. “so today’s huge”
6. “it is an intimidating situation, it I”
7. “walking into this very, large, nice home I’m a little bit nervous”
8. “Hopefully her family will accept me for who I am”
9. “Going to measure him up”
10. “So it’s a little bit nerve wracking, it’s awkward”
11. “All of the things that have brought me here, good and bad, everything that put me into a place that I know I’m ready to commit”
12. “but today I am so glad”
Section 2 (These are things we see Brad say while dressed in the clothes he wore on the date with Chantal; however, he does not identify by name who he is talking about)
Section 3 (These are things Brad says that we know are about Chantal because he identifies her by name; however, we do not see him physically say them and don’t know for sure when they were said)
1. “The last time I left Chantal, in Anguila, she just seemed rattled”
2. “The Chantal I’m seeing today is the Chantal I fell for on the very first night”
3. “That Boca may bite me, but boca loved me and Chantal was blown away by that”
4. “If Chantal and I settle down were going to be spending countless holidays with her family”
5. “Chantal’s family could not be more welcoming”
6. “From what little I know about Chantal’s dad, I respect and admire”
7. “Chantal’s been telling me all along how much alike me and her dad are”
8. “Chantal’s father and I have some similarities that are uncanny”
Section 4 (these are the things we actually see Brad say about Chantal and their date).
1. “To see Chantal, in her home town”
2. “I love to see the old Chantal again”
3. “You know what’s so funny about this is Chantal warned me”
4. “Hopefully boca’s a good judge of character because I wanna be Boca’s”
5. “I want to get along, I want to see if that”
6. “But I don’t know what I’m in store for”
7. “And when a father meets a potential son in law”
8. “I’m nervous, I am”
9. “The way he started, worked from the ground up”
10. “And I’m looking forward to talking to him”
11. “Our family history, our relationship or lack there of with our fathers”
12. “Chantal’s father gets that”
Hometown: Emily
Section 1 (These are the things Brad says on his date with Emily that we don’t physically see him saying. We don’t know when he said them and we do not know who he is talking about for sure)
1. “I’m hoping and praying that I have the change to at least meet her daughter”
2. “When we were in Anguila”
3. “Where our feelings are and if this works out”
4. “Yeah I’m nervous”
5. “So I just wanna make sure she’s okay”
6. “And so”
7. “I’ve never been in a relationship with a woman that has a daughter”
8. “I just want her to be comfortable, be herself and hopefully open up a bit”
9. “To me”
10. “My nerves were instantly calm”
11. “It was the three of us”
12. “And happy”
13. “Was like the perfect”
14. “An incredible home”
15. “So it makes me happy”
16. “It makes me know I’m in the right place”
17. “She opened up to me, we had great conversations”
18. “I don’t know these things”
19. “What in the hell is my problem”
20. “Thank God above, she told me don’t worry about it”
21. “So the awkwardness goes out the window”
Section 2 (These are things we see Brad say while dressed in the clothes he wore on the date with Emily; however, he does not identify by name who he is talking about)
1. “My god kissing this woman is so perfect”
Section 3 (These are things Brad says that we know are about Emily because he identifies her by name; however, we do not see him physically say them and don’t know for sure when they were said)
1. “I cannot wait to see Emily”
2. “I’m rock solid with where I stand with Emily”
3. “I know this is a big step for Emily, meeting her little daughter”
4. “I love the fact that little Ricki is in Emily’s life”
5. “I know it was a huge deal for Emily to allow me to meet her daughter”
6. “Sitting here playing board games with Emily and her daughter”
7. “I very well could have the opportunity to have a family, quickly”
8. “I should of kissed Emily, no doubt about it, I should have”
** “Kids usually do like me, but I don’t want to force the little girl into liking me” (also putting this here because he can only be talking about Ricki)
Section 4 (these are the things we actually see Brad say about Emily and their date).
1. “I realize it’s a huge step for Emily to even just allow me to meet her daughter”
2. “I very well could be little Ricki’s step father”
3. “I know she’s shy, it’s an awkward situation, we all know that”
4. “Today is going to be an extremely eye opening experience”
5. “I’m seeing a little bit, slowly but surely, Ricki opening up”
6. “A family setting and I felt so comfortable”
7. “The first time little Ricki laughed, just so cute”
8. “I would welcome and cherish the opportunity to be a father figure to little ricki”
9. “Image of what I want my life to be”
10. “Emily has a beautiful little girl”
11. “This is a family”
12. “But I just met her daughter”
13. “I don’t know if she’s going to come downstairs”
So what does all this mean? I’m not sure. But, I am starting to form some personal opinions now based on the analysis only. Much of what was said on Brad and Emily’s date is located in section 1, meaning we don’t know when they were said or who he was talking about. He is dressed in his clothes from his date with Emily when he says ““My god kissing this woman is so perfect,” but he doesn’t identify for sure that he is talking about Emily. Even if he is, doesn’t indicate to me anything other than he likes kissing her. The statements in section 3 and 4, which I consider the most important, don’t really tell me anything about Brad’s feelings for Emily; however, they do tell me lots about Emily and her daughter. As for the future of this relationship, it tells me only one thing and that is that Brad could be a step father after this. On the contrary, not so much located in section 1 for Chantal, and nothing at all in section 2. The majority of the date interactions are located in sections 3 and 4, again what I consider the most important. The interactions here tell me that he “fell for Chantal the very first night.” They tell me how he’s feeling ie that he loves “[loves] to see the old Chantal again” and that he’s “nervous.” And, they tell me he is thinking about the future ie “potential son in law,” and “were going to be spending countless holiday with her family.”
Based on this analysis only, I’m starting to lean towards Chantal. Doesn’t mean I can’t lean back, so I’m looking forward to next week.
Cheers!