Building an empire, constantly going from one thing to another, one more product, etc like Bethanny does, is different from what you do.
If it gets her positive attention, Bethanny will jump to it...no matter what. None of us have to be psychologists to figure out why she does it.
Just for example, the Ice Skating for Stars (or whatever it was called) took a lot of time, attention, hard hard work and it had repercussions on her new marriage. I think she would do it again (or something like that) even now, with her little family and it would cause problems, fatigue, lots of stress, etc. But Bethanny doesn't say no to anything that brings the world's attention on her.
But in the end, she doesn't like the effects that occur when she does too much.
You mentioned "balance" which I think is probably the answer to everything and I guess what I see is definitely not someone who has her life in balance.
To me, it doesn't seem like she has this under control so that's what I was inferring...not that women with careers are doing something wrong.
Sorry if it appeared that way. I like her and Jason and want the best for them and I just want to reach out and shake them both sometimes.