while i thought heather was being a bit extra, i did understand where she was coming from. it is insanely rude to talk abt someone like that the minute they leave the group. it was catty, uncalled for and typical of ramona.
and i think heather was clear on WHO made the specific comment, but the whole group sat there and giggled like it was cute.
i don't think heather was out of line at all by telling mario his wife is crazy. that woman has a problem. her reaction/behavior was TOTALLY crazy and inappropriate. i can't stand people who think that anytime you talk about something they were involved in means you are talking ABOUT them. there's a hugre difference. and really, i am sure ramona's reaction would have been even CRAZIER if heather had come to her first.