I'm not trying to convince anyone who believes it's not scripted that it is. If a viewer wishes to believe that, then that's fine. It may be more enjoyable to watch the show if you view it that way. That's just something I can't do.
I do think there was a parting of the ways with Bethenny and Jill and that most of it was scripted, then real personal conflict came into play that was over things that did not involve the script. That's just my take on it.