Andy almost admits in his book that several of the women have figured out that acting dramatic during a reunion can help to ensure you'll be back in the cast for the next season, which is probably why so many of them yell and scream. I decided watching last night that the four blondes on this show are all exactly the same. They all have incredible memories for keeping track of every possible slight they've ever suffered from anyone, but have no recollection at all for the ways they've mistreated anyone else. They also all assume that anything that doesn't make them feel good is an intentional attack. When Heather explained what happened with Malibu Country last night, it made PERFECT sense. But rather than accepting that as an actress HEather understood the process, Gretchen had to continue to fight it and believe she was being attacked. Each of the blondes is so focused on herself that she cannot entertain the idea that maybe, just maybe, the rest of the world is not that focused on her.