....so funny. One of my favorite stories.
Anyway, she comes by that attitude so naturally and she just doesn't understand how she can be perceived. I'm the exact opposite. My sister and I are like Lisa (my sister) and Kim (me; complete with substance abuse tendencies!).
Lisa is not my cup of tea but I can't get down on her for knowing who and what she likes and sticking to them. In fact, it is, IMO, a very healthy way to be, and I wish I had that attribute. As to my sister, she is smart, pretty, successful, has a clever sense of humor and so on - much like Lisa. I actually really enjoy her company, but like Kim is to Lisa, I don't think she enjoys mine.
In other words, its not a two-way street. Kim will be better off realizing - and accepting - that Lisa just doesn't care for her. Drunk, sober, purple or pink.