I also agree that Brandi would do herself more favors if she could get over it and move on. But in real life, it's not that easy --- especially when your former spouse is a public figure (even though Eddie wasn't all that famous before all this happened) and he cheats with a huge star. All that, coupled with the fact that in this case, this happened fairly shortly before Brandi first appeared on RHBH --- so that it was a relatively fresh wound that everyone on the cast would be talking about --- and the public would be wanting to know about. So it must have been --- and still is -- in Brandi's face every minute. And of course, now, to add salt to the wound, ironically, Scheanna turns up, and she ALSO cheated with Brandi's husband and ALSO is now in the RHBH/Vanderpump/Lee Ann Rimes spotlight. So this is just MORE fuel for the fire. So to me, it's no wonder how hard it is for Brandi to ignore it all and move on.