I totally agree Candor. I'd add to all you have said that I think Teresa has major problems in assuming everything is about her. Does she really think the eyeshadow she may have worn a year ago was so memorable that Melissa just had to copy it? I bet no one noticed her eyeshadow last year or this year! Teresa also assumes a person is attacking her when they are not. She gets defensive and shuts down at a genuine attempt to just communicate with her.