I do know that during the one on ones the producers really push the gals to say some HOT button things to help push the ratings.
I also know that they prodded Tamara to bring up Gretchen's boyfriend during the reunion show. If Bravo was on gretchens side they would have keep it under raps.
ANd it was gretchen that first said that JAy was a stalker and that was why she dumped him on the freeway. Then she said that he was a good family friend and that was why he went with her to BAss Lake for 4th of July weekend. Her story was all over the place.