I know a lot of people dislike him, but besides that, why do so many people have such a problem with Gretchen possibly being linked to Slade now? He is single, and most didn't appreciate Jo anyway. People have particular ideas about how long one ought to 'mourn' before they date again, but thats a personal choice.
So she's hooking up with a guy we all know...so what? This happens all the time in Anytown, USA.
Even if there was infedeliy and overlapping...ummm, look at Vicki! She was married and wanting her 'girls' to come out to play. Is that morally worse???
Just trying to put this into perspective...which is prob a bad ida!