Not the sole criterion but a big one. One kid I could see.Originally Posted by buttahfly;3667070;
Enough byblows to have a majority, I don't see. I just don't.
I'm sorry but six kids who don't know their dad in my book makes him a crappy person. Certainly it doesn't make him responsible, a fine young man, somebody to be proud to know or welcome into one's family, reliable, an example to hold up.
One is a mistake. Six is a lifestyle.
I know - judgemental. But he could have kept his zip done up, used protection, avoided STDs, whatever. But to bring six people who will have that kind of 'family' (half sib all over, four co-mammas maybe, or four squabbling wrecks, and now yet another co-mommy with a preexisting kid) is not fair.