Saw another story where Big Poppa not only did real-estate, owns several strip clubs.Maybe that's where he met Kim.
Then read that Kandi may be leaving the show, due to a conflict with Nene, something to do with her fiance' AJ. Seems like (and this is so jumbled in my mind) AJ has 6 kids, two of them are with rapper TI's girlfriend Tiny, she and Kandi made most the money with their group Xscape (?). Now where NeNe fits in this I'm not sure, but somehow she fits. (barely)