Okay, I have to watch the first part of the reunion again, because she made no indication that she wasn't there when he said those words to Sweetie. Now in no way is Kim responsible for this grown man and what comes out of his mouth, but it should help her to recognize that she needs to tone down the way she speaks. Again, I don't think she's a racist, but she's doing herself no favors with the way she jokes around.
Dragonlady-I agree with what you said regarding the way Derek J. was joking with her. I believe that she brings it on herself. When you joke around that way sometimes people will do the same to you, and it becomes a vicious cycle. She just needs to mature-period. Something about her certainly reads as a person who is trying very hard to be twenty-something again. Those days are gone, she needs to understand that and let them go.
I'm not team Nene or team Kim. Honestly, I wouldn't mind both of them moving on and bringing in some new housewives. It's just not the type of drama that I enjoy seeing. Besides, they are both full of themselves. Enough is enough. Those two are making me miss Lisa and Deshawn and that takes a lot! Lisa was never a favorite and Deshawn was about as interesting as watching an ice cube form, however, I'd gladly trade Nene and Kim for those two at this point.