Do any of these cougars on the show realize what fools they are making out of the way they chase the "boyz"? When I lived in NYC, I had a real good friend who dated older (sometimes much older) women. He would wine then and dine them and for the most part all of them thought he was madly in love with them. After a steamy evening and getting his check, he would head home to his boy friend. I questioned his ethics once and he just said that it was a win,win situation. He had a great job and his lady friends got the type of attention they hadn't had in years.