I wonder how much relationship experience Vaughn has had. Not sex experience, but actual relationships. He seems clueless as to how to speak to a woman. Is he getting his conversation tips from porn? Who asks about three-ways at dinner? That seems like something that could be discussed when the relationship is more established and there's a lot of trust. Otherwise, it's just porn-y and that doesn't strike me as Monet's style at all. It's certainly not the way for him to build trust with her. I don't think Vaughn is the norm in this respect, but it seems like military life kept him from maturing emotionally, at least where relationships with women are concerned. I've been impressed by the concessions he has made - moving into Monet's home, especially - but then he has to go and act like a jerk. It would be nice if they could get it together and yes, all marriages are work, but this one seems like it would be ALL work. If they didn't have any sexual chemistry either, I don't think they would have ANY chance as a couple. Still, if they're already fighting on their honeymoon and taking breaks from each other a week into the marriage, I don't see much hope.