I did not think this would be good. But it is chalked full of things to think about.
Anger from California traffic--I would be angry too; the only thing to do is move away from that or accept it
Wanting a child issues--transitions times appear to be problematic; if a guy does not want kids and I wanted kids, I would have to rethink the feasibility of that relationship. I do not think there is any shame in divorce....or wanting what you want (kids).
Wife wanting attention all the time--she might have abandonment issues