How can you dwell on the friction that went on years ago when so many fabulouls things are happening now?? Iyanla's Lifeclasses are amazing and extremely insightful; I can see that Oprah thinks so, too. So, if Oprah can let it go, we all need to move on and not dwell in pettiness! You can't hear what's going on if you can't get your mind off what went on! The two main contenders are moving on without you, and I know they don't want to do that! Refuse That Gravitational Pull!!!