Is there something wrong with a sliding glass door or is it just unheard of to have a wet bar and no french doors? That girl has lost it.
Any thinking person with an ounce of common sense would sit down and try to limit costs, WHEN COSTS are an issue! When your family is stretching every dollar as far as possible, you WANT to cut back, not be a diva. You say things like, cut that out, we don't have to have it now. It can be added later, if finances permit. Nice kitchen cabinets are a good investment, but the frills should be cut down, without anyone pointing it out to you. GREEDY sister, IMO.
It seems Meri doesn't understand the concept that everything is not about her. "You can't always get what you want. Sometimes you just get what you need."