no, Tobi, you're not old. For some reason, society glamorizes people like him. I guess now his house is starting to represent his career: Sleazy.![]()
no, Tobi, you're not old. For some reason, society glamorizes people like him. I guess now his house is starting to represent his career: Sleazy.![]()
You mean like a cheap set on a porn movie?Originally Posted by Tobi;4156065;
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He needs to say enough, you are a grown woman, get out! We love our children, we never stop, but we have to put our foot down at some point. He could even say, you can stay but you MUST get help or you are out. And she HAS to follow through with it.Originally Posted by PA Snow Bunny;4147863;
"To err is human, to arr is a pirate"
I agree. Give her a deadline to get the house cleaned up and get help. It's not fair to the other daughter either. His daughter has already devalued the house; if he let's it go much longer, the house will have to be gutted to get the odors out . Recently, my mother said she was going to give each of us kids a gift of some money - an early inheritance. She was doing it because one of my brothers has cancer and is paying a couple of thousand a month for meds. I told her just to give some money to that brother, because he's the one that needs it now. But she said, no, she was going to give all her children equal amounts, because, you never know, one of us currently healthy ones might get sick in the future and need the money. That was a new perspective for me. So this father has let his daughter ruin his house. What if his other daughter gets sick and needs his financial help? He won't be able to help her as much as he would have. And, as PA Snow Bunny said, what's going to happen to his hoarder daughter after he dies?Originally Posted by libgirl2;4159331;
I am so sorry about your brother and pray for a speedy recovery.Originally Posted by Kip;4159984;
At the rate that house is going, it will be gutted or possibly condemned. I would never do that to my dad.
"To err is human, to arr is a pirate"
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