I don't want to argue about this, b/c you aren't going to change my mind any more than I'm going to change yours, but I will say, when people agree to be on TV, they are also signing up for the negatives as well, which includes criticism for their actions. Sorry, but she acted very foolishly on the show. You can blame it editing all day long, but the fact is that she did sleep with Stephen after knowing him all of what, 24 hours? And she had unprotected sex with him. Not too bright...
I really didn't like anyone from this group. I had to quit watching half-way through. I couldn't take it anymore.