There is a big difference between my age and the "older" ones in the family. I was very spoiled (still am) but I always felt I had 4 mothers and could always go to one of my sisters or mother depending on my needs at the time. I can hear my mother and my 3 sisters words coming from my mouth. I believe I have a lot in common with my sisters now that we are all grown. I had the older parents, still not sure I liked that, I think I missed out on some things with them.I hope Michelle and Jim Bobrealizes that there comes an age and a person needs to step back and say we are getting too old to have more children and we will not always be able to do things.