You don't think it is a bad thing, but I do. I think we will find that out in time. So many missed opportunities. These kids don't have the opportunity to explore what is meaningful and interesting to them. They are very limited in their experiences. If you have 20 kids, chances are that at least one of them will be "different." Each kid requires a unique parenting approach because they are born with differences. Raising kids like they are in the army is not a good thing. Being polite doesn't mean that these kids have developed the skills to survive in the real world. They are very sheltered.