The Real Housewives of Atlanta - Page 139

nikkij_26 · 10-04-2009, 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by daiseyo

As I already mentioned in my original post, I realize AJ and Kim are two totally different situations. You are making waaay more out of what I had originally stated. That simple.

Not really, just giving my perspective and opinion on the situation with or without AJ in the picture. Which is what the what the message board is for, no?

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tears.and.rain · 10-04-2009, 10:36 AM

Kandi did NOT choose a man over her child! In what instance do we see AJ be anything but kind and sweet to Riley? Where do we see him be anything but kind and sweet to Kandi? We know that she was taking it slow FOR her daughter and her mother.

KeepItReal · 10-04-2009, 10:39 AM

I was so saddened to hear about AJ. He never struck me as a bad guy, just as someone who had made some questionable choices and I understood why Khandi's mom never accepted him.It's awful that he died so young and now his children will truly be raised without a father. Hopefully they will be allowed to maintain contact with one another, since the one thread the bound them together is now gone. Khandi said there wa no baby mama drama, so hopefully the women will foster a relationship between the siblings. May the young man RIP.

mom2 · 10-04-2009, 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by MsDiva2007

AJ was not a healthy relationship. Yes she does however her daughter deserves to be listened to also. It is possible to have a positive relationship and a man if you choose properly who is around your child.

I can only hope that everything turns out ok for all involved.

While I agreed with Kandi's mom about the marriage, I do not see how it was an unhealthy relationship. There was no whisper of any abuse or blatant favoring him over the child. The daughter seemed to really love AJ. And Kandi was listening to her daughter as she didn't rush out and marry him anyway.

prhoshay · 10-04-2009, 12:09 PM

While AJ seemed socially awkward, I always thought that he was nothing but supportive of Kandi, and he seemed to have a good relationship with Riley. Kandi looks very happy with AJ in the pictures above. Who's to say it wasn't right?

tears.and.rain · 10-04-2009, 12:32 PM

Even with his past mistakes in mind, there is nothing that is to say he's a bad person. Nothing. May God help his family in this terrible time for them.

dustypants · 10-04-2009, 01:04 PM

That's an interesting article, the one about Kim missing Kandi's party.... but I thought her daughters names were Brielle and Arianna.....

KeepItReal · 10-04-2009, 01:29 PM

Okay, just read the article about Kim missing Kandi's show. What confuses me is that she said she had spoken to Kandi earlier and explained...yet the first thing Kandi asked Lisa was "where's Kim"? Aside from that Kandi's comments did not seem to indicate that Kim had given any sort of explaination. Kim was quoted as saying that she'd be there for her good friend Kandi while she is dealing with the loss of AJ. Hopefully she will actually be there, but thankfully Kandi has her own support system in place outside of the crazies that occupy the show with her.

daiseyo · 10-04-2009, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by nikkij_26

Not really, just giving my perspective and opinion on the situation with or without AJ in the picture. Which is what the what the message board is for, no?

I don't know how it could be a perspective with or without AJ in the picture, since you compared and contrasted Kandi's mom's relationship with Kim vs AJ, but no big deal. I stand by my point that from how she has been edited, IMO, it seems as though a person would need to earn Kandi's mom's trust. BTW, I do like Kandi's mom.

MsDiva2007 · 10-04-2009, 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by mom2

While I agreed with Kandi's mom about the marriage, I do not see how it was an unhealthy relationship. There was no whisper of any abuse or blatant favoring him over the child. The daughter seemed to really love AJ. And Kandi was listening to her daughter as she didn't rush out and marry him anyway.

I didn't say that Riley had a bad relationship or mention any abuse. What I said was Riley did not want those kids in her home. The child was upset to the point of tears over it. Yes Riley liked AJ, however having someone else and their brood move into a home you are not used to sharing upset the girl.

Riley loved AJ his kids not so much. There may have not been any baby mama drama at the time but it is sure to come with that many kids and baby mama's. I can understand Kandi's mom unease with the situation she was worried about her daughter and her grandchild. Imo an unhealthy relationship is one that puts undue stress on my child. YMMV.

10-04-2009, 10:36 AM	#1382
tears.and.rain FORT Fan Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 318	Re: The Real Housewives of Atlanta Kandi did NOT choose a man over her child! In what instance do we see AJ be anything but kind and sweet to Riley? Where do we see him be anything but kind and sweet to Kandi? We know that she was taking it slow FOR her daughter and her mother.

10-04-2009, 10:39 AM	#1383
KeepItReal FORT Fogey Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,528	Re: The Real Housewives of Atlanta I was so saddened to hear about AJ. He never struck me as a bad guy, just as someone who had made some questionable choices and I understood why Khandi's mom never accepted him.It's awful that he died so young and now his children will truly be raised without a father. Hopefully they will be allowed to maintain contact with one another, since the one thread the bound them together is now gone. Khandi said there wa no baby mama drama, so hopefully the women will foster a relationship between the siblings. May the young man RIP.

10-04-2009, 12:09 PM	#1385
prhoshay Signed, Sealed, Delivered Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Right Here, Right Now Posts: 13,803	Re: The Real Housewives of Atlanta While AJ seemed socially awkward, I always thought that he was nothing but supportive of Kandi, and he seemed to have a good relationship with Riley. Kandi looks very happy with AJ in the pictures above. Who's to say it wasn't right? __________________ "...each affects the other, and the other affects the next, and the world is full of stories, but the stories are all one." - Mitch Albom, one helluva writer You are the only person responsible for your happiness.

10-04-2009, 12:32 PM	#1386
tears.and.rain FORT Fan Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 318	Re: The Real Housewives of Atlanta Even with his past mistakes in mind, there is nothing that is to say he's a bad person. Nothing. May God help his family in this terrible time for them.

10-04-2009, 01:04 PM	#1387
dustypants FORT Regular Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 91	Re: The Real Housewives of Atlanta That's an interesting article, the one about Kim missing Kandi's party.... but I thought her daughters names were Brielle and Arianna.....

10-04-2009, 01:29 PM	#1388
KeepItReal FORT Fogey Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,528	Re: The Real Housewives of Atlanta Okay, just read the article about Kim missing Kandi's show. What confuses me is that she said she had spoken to Kandi earlier and explained...yet the first thing Kandi asked Lisa was "where's Kim"? Aside from that Kandi's comments did not seem to indicate that Kim had given any sort of explaination. Kim was quoted as saying that she'd be there for her good friend Kandi while she is dealing with the loss of AJ. Hopefully she will actually be there, but thankfully Kandi has her own support system in place outside of the crazies that occupy the show with her.