Good luck with everything, bride-to-be, and welcome to the site.
If you make up your mind to have a good time and not sweat the little things, then you will have a happy wedding day. I got married about 7 years ago and our wedding was 10 days after I took the bar exam. Were there some minor snafus with the plans. Sure. Did I let it spoil my fun at the party of my life? Hell no. When else will all of your friends and relatives come to some party you throw? Unless you live next door to all your friends and family, probably never.
All you need for a legal marriage is:
a marriage license from the appropriate county,
a licensed officiant,
requisite signatures and witnesses
Everything else is DETAILS. The women on this show are so caught up in the details that they are totally missing the point. You're starting a marriage, so start it off on the right foot.
Just my two cents.