I dont have kids. Is three too old really for a pacifier?? Doesn't seem so old to me, maybe 5 is.
ETA: Over Thanksgiving my 7 year old nephew was clearly crying and Trying to get so upset to attempt to throw up (he failed thankfull). But, it was obvious he was doing it on purpose. I let my sister know that she needs to confront him about doing that.. It seemed soooo unhealthy. Just call me Nanny Karen..