It's the woman that, generally, gets stuck with the baby. The guy drops his seed and can move on. As the saying goes, "Mama's baby....Daddy's maybe." That is why I think the mothers need to be slapped! They get themselves in a situation that may not be that fluid, or flexible.
I was so proud of Kailyn for taking responsibility for her birth control, and recognizing the seriousness of her sexual actions.
Fathers have fewer ramifications. What should be done and what IS can be two totally different things.