Cali, you must be a guy. Who else would construe the guys' behavior as "Flirting?" Getting off on a lap dance & taking a girl to your "bathroom" is more than flirting. I'm glad Hayley could see how they behave around females. The others could conduct themselves like gentlemen, why is that? They are the ones who can be trusted. Not the "flirters." I would have ditched them too. Thank God my husband doesn't act like that around other females. He'd be gone too. No, I would have never nmarried him in the first place & he knows it. He decided on having me, not every other woman he wants to "flirt" with.