The very best way to not have interviewers make you cry is to not to give interviews about former spouses. Like they're going to talk about Brad & Angelina and NOT mention the preganancy thing.
As far as the world being shocked...um, OK, Jen. Yeah, we're all very shocked at a Hollywood marriage breaking up. And *gasp* reports of adultery. Unheard of.
Glad to see she's not too devastated to give interviews. If it's part of a Vanity Fair piece, there's probably a lavish photo spread accompanying the interview. I wonder if she called Nicole Kidman for pointers on how to survive a celebrity divorce?