Interesting point, Kylie. I think it has something to do with the whole dating process. Many guys will be more romantic and sensitive and do "odd" things like write poems and wear flowers while trying to woo someone in the early stages of dating than the same man would in most of their "regular" life. Not all men, but there is a large group (and I'm married to one) who tone down the romance factor considerably after marriage. It's a stereotype, but right or wrong, a sensitive male is often accused of being gay. The guys on this show are not hunting for food to survive, they are wooing women, and that just isn't that macho of an activity I guess.