I was gone for a week with a neighbor looking in/feeding canned food last week. When I got back, my big lug of a loveable cat (the white one in my avatar) was mad at me and stayed outside most of the time. I gave him his space but let him know I was available for pets and brushings. Now, a week later, he's still not warming back up to me. I'm a little depressed about it. The two girls have always been independent and come right to me when they're in the house for some cuddles, but Skipperdee was my buddy, and now he's avoiding me. Any words of wisdom?