Witnessed Dez have a full-blown, fall-out, stretch-out, go 20 ways at once temper tantrum the other day, when I physically stopped her from following Miss Sashay out of the room like she always does! I feel so sorry for Sashay, having this constant escort. I was in the middle of coming out Dez, Miss Sashay got up to leave the room, and Dez tried to snatch away to follow her. I grabbed her by the tail (what I call her "cat handle" to stop her, and the "fit" started. I switched to her rear leg for a better hold, and it escalated. It went on for a good 10 seconds, at least, before she realized that she was not going to get away. She finally flopped down and let me finish the grooming...gave me a huge, loud sigh. When I finished, she got up and went to the top of the stairs and started grooming herself, but she never went downstairs to where "here sister" had gone. Miss Sashay eventually came back up the stairs, Dez did a doubletake, and just let her pass. I just can't figure out what this need to follow Miss Sashay is all about it. Dez will follow me AND Sashay, but neither of the other kitties. I do want to add that Dez never got aggressive with me, even though she is the only fully-clawed gurl in the house. She has got the best personality out of the whole group, outside of her aggravating tendency to want to follow.