Ahh, Damn. I haven't been following any of this, but I had an inkling of what was going on.
That video got me crying.
I lost my brother in 99 to cancer. He wasn't a child, he was 47.
But as the minister at a funeral I was at just last week said,
"Whether the person who passed was 18 or 81... death stinks."
I'm sorry. You have my thoughts.