Hey! I raised one of those, too!! Mine came home with a torn shirt...torn by a little girl, no less...and I was fired up and ready to go to school to raise "youknowwhat"!! He, calmly, said to me that I was thinking about the the shirt, and not him. I calmed down, considered what he said, decided that he just might know better than his hothead mother at that time, and I had to let it go. He didn't come home with anymore torn clothes, and I learned to pick my battles after consultation with my son. I wanted to smack that little girl (AND her mother!), by my son was not/is not one to physically retaliate against a female. Never has been. Proud mom, here!