It is amazing what happens to free spirits when they decide to settle down. But this is definetly something that needs to be worked out before any marriage. Perhaps a talk with boyfriend, then invite future MIL out to lunch and firm, but polite talk with her. You could also drop the hint that you are unable to have more kids. Whether you are or not, you are unwilling. Semantics, but like Gabriel said, you do not need a third person running your marriage. All the best on this.Originally Posted by remote_goddess;2418869;