Sometimes you just have to say "amen" and turn the page to start a new chapter. I know for me it was my mother. I took (and gave) a lot of stuff over the years. I finally had it out with her several years ago, cited chapter and verse, and cleared my conscience. I then turned the page. I waited for her to make the first contact. She did, and we are the closest we have ever been in any stage of life. She and I agreed to disagree and we both are verbal about what we allow ourselves to talk about. We still argue at certain times, but it's now done in a "fair" manner.