Since we are complaining about inlaws, I have a great story
Monday I was down my MILs house and had my husband ask her to do a favor for us on Tuesday since we had a doctor's appointment and couldn't get it done. Her exact words were "Absolutely not" So, I said "that's nice, your son that did everything for you asks for a favor and you can't even do it". Then she goes on to say that she was going to her mother's doctor to find out why he stopped chemo on her. Well, if she said that in the effin beginning, I wouldn't have said anything about not doing the favor as I feel her mother's health is more important than doing my favor. So, I just get a call from my BILs girlfriend (who lives next door to the MIL). She tells me that my MIL said to her "that b*tch Dawn doesn't know when to keep her mouth shut" WTF????? I am so sick and tired of this. I have done nothing to this woman in 18 years that I am with husband. I have gone out of my way to do things for this family. I even had my father make HER mother a pot of chicken soup b/c she was craving it. I didn't ask for NOTHING in return. I could have made her buy the ingredients, but my parents (who are not well off) didn't want it. Now, FIL works for the government and MIL has a good job.
I call my husband and ask him to talk to her and he says that I need to be prepared for her actions when I say a comment like that. Well, I am, but she is making it out to be like I knew she was going to see the doctor. I swear on my life that she did not say that until after I said my comment.
So, now I'm sitting at work in tears b/c I can't take this anymore. I absolutely REFUSE to do anything with that family with the exception of BIL, girlfriend, and nephew. I am so Effin done.